I am once again in an airport, waiting.
The waiting to return from a vacation, or holiday, is more bittersweet than when the journey starts. There is the same anticipation of movement, and going forward. There is the desire to get back to the things you know, and the places in which you are comfortable. There is the eagerness to see the people you care about who you have been without. But there is also a sense of apprehension. You know that you will have to give up this altered reality that you have been existing in, and return to the reality of work, and bills and responsibility. But, if we didn't go home, then we would't be as appreciative of our time away. And, if we never went away, we wouldn't appreciate our home as much.
So, I will return home. I have had my journey, and all journeys must find some conclusion. I think this was a good journey. I have seen things that have amazed me, and entertained me, and educated me. I have experienced a world that is, despite a shared language, very different from my own. I have tried to immerse myself in this culture and not just skim the surface. And I think, as a result, it has made me a better person. Not "better" in the sense of being superior, but better as in more complete. I am more human because I have tried to understand what the word means to someone else.
I also hope that I have done my small part to change the way that people see us in America. We have this reputation in other parts of the world as being loud and rude and obnoxious. I have definitely come across plenty of them here- whether it was the man who could not comprehend why he would not be able to view Fox News, or the woman who was complaining about how isolated her family was feeling during their stay on a private island, in a castle, which was amazing. I have tried really hard to show the rest of the world that there really are polite, cheerful, charismatic, charming, intelligent, affable Americans. Too much?
As for Ireland itself, I found it to be a wonderful place to visit. I had the chance, in a relatively short period of time, to see a great deal of what this country has to offer. No matter what your vacationing goals are, they seem to be met here in some way. The one exception might be those who are looking for constant sun and heat, but since I am not one of those, I am not addressing that issue. There are beautiful countrysides and peaceful landscapes to enjoy. There are wonderful museums that cover a wide range of topics and appeals. There are amazing natural wonders and sites around every corner. There is more history here than you could ever hope to take in. There are small towns that can be explored in a few hours. There are sprawling cities that provide any number of possibilities. While it is a fairly pricey place to visit, there are ways to make it more manageable to your specific situation, like the earlybird meal deals and a wide range of housing options.
So, here is my soapbox moment. As I sit here in a waiting area, surrounded by screaming children, with recaps of the recent riots playing on the TV, and my own memories of rude tourists from all parts of the world, I have just one thought-we are in trouble as a planet. If we (using this term to apply broadly to all people) continue on the path that we are on, things are going to get much worse for all of us. We cannot continue to go about our lives feeling like we can behave however we please without it affecting those around us. We cannot continue to push others out of our way so that we can get ahead. We cannot continue to allow our children to act as if their actions do not have consequences. We cannot sit timidly by as a society and just watch as things fall apart. How can we expect our countries to function in a decent manner, when we are unable to function as individuals in a decent manner? All the world's problems can be solved by people just being decent to one another. Not really, but it would probably be a lot less miserable.
There you have them, my final thoughts. Thank you again for sharing this journey with me. We will see where the road takes me next. For a complete transcript of this journey please send $99.95 to me, I am waiting in the airport